Sum it up in a few words

Sore feet, high humidity, emptying the fridge, packing the truck, thankful there are no goodbyes in heaven, pb&j for lunch, thankful the truck came (even if it was 4 days late), souvenirs from friends, visitors stop by, sweating, fruit salad, filtered water, camping in our own house, one last date night in Cap, thankful for the prayers of others, mosquitoes swarm in, sandwiches for dinner, seeing some friends, Shawn breaks up a fist fight in the street, setting the alarm, fan on high, Roxy + things leave in the truck at 6am, we leave for Zig at 7am, flying, last-minute tasks, bittersweet, busy week, exhausted, phase one of moving: done.

Traveling today,
s&j

Move forward in hope

Have you ever had such a vivid nightmare, only to wake up and realize that parts of that nightmare were true? That’s how my morning began. I woke up praying for my family, for things they are facing. I prayed for peace, I prayed that God will show himself in unexpected ways, as he does. The distance between us makes my heart feel a heavy burden. He reminds me that he knows, cares, and that he is my dearest friend, ready to take my burdens.
We are all facing challenges in life. But guess what?

God has overcome them. He never changes. He remains the same.

I wish I could share more. I wish I could lay my heart on the line, but sometimes, in order to protect others, there’s only so much we can do, share, say.

So I choose to look past the nightmare that brought me to tears, reminding me of the sadness that a sin-tainted world holds.

I choose to look past our human mistakes and into the eyes of a kind, just Father.

I choose to smile. It’s not what comes easy! What comes easy is to remain in sadness, and to long for things to be different. 

“May the God of HOPE fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” Romans 15:13

I choose to look for joy. I choose to be thankful.

“Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

Today is the day we move. From one ministry into another. From one part of the country to another. It’s a new day, it’s a new opportunity. In many ways, today we move forward in hope. As we pack and embrace change, and as we choose, moment by moment, to let him be the reason we rejoice in this life. No matter our circumstances.

He is there, every step of the way.

Dear ____ ,

Translators and language learners everywhere… get some great tips and ideas from this hilarious video. For some reason Shawn says the girl in the video reminds him of me. Could it be because that’s kind of what I sound like when I pretend to speak other languages, that I clearly don’t speak?

“Tropical Fresh” scented bug spray… I think the mosquitoes like the way you smell. Doesn’t that kind of defeat the purpose of wearing bug spray in the first place?

Courtyard neighbors… you only own 3 metal bowls and 5 metal spoons {that’s the beauty of eating from a common bowl}, so how is it that they cling and clang together every morning making so.much.noise?! It sounds like you’re operating a metal bowl and spoon factory right outside our bedroom window!

That magical moment when the power comes back on… thanks to you we can suddenly brew, chill, mix, reheat, blend and Google again. - Kari

Taxi driver… please, please, slow down as that giant bull with the giant, potentially hazardous horns crosses the road in front of us.

Dead rat… I thought you would have chosen to appear / stink up our world on a Monday, but nope, Tuesday morning it was.

Short hair in the mornings… yikes! You could really do some damage with that half-rooster, half-peacock, half-hedgehog look you’ve got goin’ on there.

Cold showers… *shutters* you sure can be a rude awakening!

Hot water heaters… *happy sigh* you were a wonderful invention indeed!

Painting of Senegalese women in colorful clothes, working in rice fields… it was sooo thoughtful of Yassine to give you to me, as a souvenir of our friendship and of our time here in the Casamance.

Random item… why is it that as soon as you’re packed I suddenly have a serious need for you? I mean, really? A potato masher? I thought it was a pretty safe bet to go ahead and pack you.

Fast food sign… you’re a little bit misleading. First of all, when I saw you my mind was dreaming of Sonic’s strawberry limeades, burgers and fries at Five Guys, Chick-fil-A’s sweet tea + chicken sandwiches, and tacos from Del Taco. Secondly, we’re in Africa! There’s nothing fast about you!

LOVE your friends [who are moving in 2 days],
s&j

He knew just what we needed

As you know, life can be messy. Things happen. Stress, difficulty and challenges arise. But no matter what, God, in his grace, knows just what we need. He finds ways to encourage our hearts and lift our spirits. He knew we needed a weekend like this. A weekend with good friends, good food, music, lots of laughter, acting like goofballs, catching up over chai tea, eating desserts, showing our friends where we’ve been living, introducing them to some neighbors, spending time together, dinner with our co-workers {lasagna, yum!}, a good Sunday morning with the cell group, and a great night’s sleep.
 

What happens when two dancers get together? All kinds of crazy.

 

Being goofy.

Edem and Leticia.

The guys.

The girls.

The packing and moving process continues! Things are moving forward. We plan to pack up the truck that our neighbor will be driving up to Dakar on Thursday and we’ll be flying up from Ziguinchor on Friday. Thanks for your prayers and little notes of encouragement. They are a BIG blessing {keep em’ coming}! Have a good week, and remember, that whatever you’re going through, God knows about it. You can talk to him. You can trust him.

S&J
 
 

5 things we love about our Moms

Last year for Mother’s Day, we each wrote 5 things we love about our Moms, and this year, we have 5 more things to add to the list… BUT… we will each be writing about our Mother-in-law!

Jenn on Shawn’s Mom Laurel: 

+ I love how much she loves each of her sons, daughter-in-laws and grandkids.

+ She’s a hard worker, both in the home and outside of the home.

+ She’s a good listener.

+ She sends fun packages and remembers the little things that we love.

+ She shows what unconditional love looks like.

Laurel at the airport with a group of family members welcoming us home from Africa!

Shawn on Jenn’s Mom Lori:

+ She’s really fun and makes me laugh.

+ She’s spontaneous ["Last-minute trip to Old Chicago's at 10pm? Sure!"]

+ She always leaves a thoughtful “welcome surprise” in our room when we come to visit.

+ Not only do we love the same candy [Cow Tails, Charleston Chews, Peeps], we love the same girl.

+ She’s a gifted encourager, and sends nice notes and emails to my wife.

Mother and Son-in-law together at Christmas.

You are both such beautiful, kind, and wonderful women!

Happy Mother's Day from us!

Love,

S&J

Pictures of our world

Two cute girls.A lady and her baby buying daily essentials at the boutique. Yassine walking into her sewing center. Keeping the goats out. Ndye (“mother”) helping her family cook lunch. Laundry day = lots of buckets! COLORFUL bouganvilla on the table to welcome our friends.

Little Jenn turns ONE this month!

The view from Shawn’s office window. Hanging the laundry up on the roof. Two Jenns posing for a picture. Roxy waiting for our friends to arrive.

Happy weekend,
s&j

Dear ____ ,

Because it’s Friday, and because next week will most likely be crazy busy with our upcoming move, here’s a weekend edition of Dear ___ , for you.

Shawn’s brother Brandon… living in Iraq and Afghanistan has made you into a really good package buyer/packer/sender, hasn’t it!? (Thank you so much!!)

Power cuts… there is one thing that we LOVE about you [yes, you read that correctly], and that’s the joyous sound of cheer that erupts once you’re turned back on. Even if you were only off for 10-15 minutes, applause and cheers can almost always be heard.

In Style… it’s SO much fun to have a hot-off-the-press magazine, full of pictures of colorful Western-style clothes and fashion ideas. Especially when I can enjoy you with some package treats such as wasabi soy roasted almonds and Sweet Tart jelly beans!

A package surprise makes for a fun Friday!

 Guys who haul water for a living at the well near our house… we are so impressed by you. You’re out there every day, rain, shine, dust or wind, doing a job that’s physically exhausting and doesn’t pay very well. Although you do get some big arm muscles out of the deal! We really are so thankful for you, and we know your families are too. We appreciate the fact that we can call out to you, tell you how many buckets of water we want to buy, and that you haul it up to our roof and put it in our water reservoir. Where would we be without you?

This weekend… we’re so excited because for the first time in months Shawn doesn’t have to prepare a sermon for Sunday. That means that we’ll be able to finish packing and spend the day with our out-of-town guests!

Village communication system… we are so fascinated by you. Yes, the average person has a cell phone. But even today, there are certain sounds that mean certain things, and that’s how news is shared. If you here someone shouting in a high pitch tone, for example, it means that there’s a fire. If you hear a loud, ”hey ha hey ha” sound, it means that someone has died, etc. I wonder how far back in time those sound codes go?

Downton Abbey… at first I thought you were “downtown”. My bad. Also, it’s because of you that I now go around speaking in a British accent, while planning extravagant parties, and making my house girl, and everyone else, call me “Her Ladyship”.

Blinking… I admit that I’ve taken you for granted. I don’t even stop to think about how hard you work, and how overwhelming it must be to open and close trillions of times per day.

Cherry pie filling and pie crust sitting on the kitchen counter… only Shawn could look at you and think to use our extra-large muffin tin and make mini individual cherry pies. “She’s my cherry pie…” 

Palm tree leaves… during the day your green leaves provide shade and a tropical feel. But during the night, my how you change. You are no longer innocent and free-spirited as you cast creepy, human-like shadows on the wall of our bedroom. With every gust of wind, your leaves move and dance across our walls in such an eery fashion.

Bacon… there really should be a day set aside to celebrate you.

Roach who was found dead in my flour container… what a tragic way to die! You, there, all stiff and powder-white. I just have one question: did you think you were climbing into the sugar container?

Friends in Cap Skirring / Kabrousse… it’s no secret: we’re going to MISS YOU!

Boat… The rumors are true. When we move up to Dakar next week we’re going to be flying. I know your feelings are hurt. But you know what? We’ve sailed with you many times, and we’ve only flown once. How do you think the plane feels? Also, we heard that last week you got stuck for over an hour on a sand barge, and that you may be out-of-order for the time being. So, the plane it is.

On the move,

s&j

Why hello, there

Hello to moving in ONE WEEK from tomorrow! Wowzers. Thankfully we have a truck lined up {Shawn talked to one of our neighbors who has a big dump truck and he’ll take our things + Roxy in the truck for us. He even threw in two bags of mangos in on the deal.}

Packing, sorting and organizing. (Sounds like the title to a catchy new moving jingle, doesn’t it?! If only Shawn had his banjo here…)

Hello to finding our worth in HIM.

Hello to speaking in a British accent, thanks to Downton Abbey.

Hello to Shawn turning 33 in two weeks from tomorrow!

Hello to a visit from out-of-town friends! Edem and Leticia (newlywed friends from Dakar) are taking the boat down on Friday and will spend all day Saturday + Saturday night with us, and then they’ll leave Sunday afternoon on the boat. It will be a long trip for them, but we’re sooo excited that they’re coming!

With Leticia last November.
Hello to chocolate milkshakes at 3:00.
 
Hello to looking forward to time with the cell group on Sunday. It’s our last week {*tear*} and they’re having a little party for us! We’ve been so blessed by their encouragement and support as we move / take on a new ministry.
 
Hello to hosting a missions intern this summer! Meet Hélène Desjardins. She’s a 20-year-old from Québec and she is currently studying at Word of Life in Hungary. We met once {we think…} when we were living in Québec. She wants to study cultural and social anthropology, and hopes to someday play a part in tribal church planting with NTM! She’ll be spending two months with us here on the field of Senegal, and we look forward to showing her more of what missions looks like, and providing her with opportunities to serve!
Isn’t she beautiful?!
Hello to sitting outside, reading and talking to God.

Time outside on the porch.

Hello to a day set aside to celebrate Mom!

Hello to Mexican lasagna leftovers for dinner.

Hello cute neighbor boy with a BIG smile!

Such a nice little guy.

In our line of work, “goodbyes” are said far too often, and it’s never easy! So today we’re looking for ways that we can say, “HELLO”.

Your friends in Cap Skirring for one more week,

s&j

 

 

 

 

 

Dear ____ , {guest post}

HELLO Wednesday and HELLO to you!

In last week’s post, we told you guys {friends & readers} to send in your own Dear Blank messages, and that our favorite would appear here, today. Well, we ended up getting quite a few responses! We can’t post them all, but here are some highlights:

Drivers Who Try to Pass Me on the Left When I’m Turning Left… I’d like to introduce you to the right side of the road and my car where you can pass freely without the potential of mortally wounding both of us. (Beth Botheras, missionary/teacher in Niger.)

Splish Splash… you’re the sound we hear in that moment when we realize, oh no, our two-year-old is in the toilet again! (David and Kristy Kelly, missionaries serving in France, aiming to open a work in Togo, West Africa.)

Baguettes… you’re soft and warm inside… you’re crunchy and crispy outside… there is nothing like a hamburger decked out on your graciously golden goodness. The American version of “bread” is only a shadow in comparison to you. You are the reason we had to buy that scale at the garage sale. (David and Kristy)

Bible Club teens… you don’t know it, but you are our weekly French class. Thanks for all of the encouragement, correction, and patience. I know that we say things with funny words, phrases, and accents – but man do we appreciate how you make us speak french, and help us speak it better each time we talk. You all are AWESOME! (David and Kristy)

Pringles… chips are chips but YOU… YOU are more. We are so grateful for your smorgasbord of flavors. Please don’t stop appearing on the shelves of our supermarket. (David and Kristy)

Dear ____, posts…  when I see there is a new link for you on my Facebook, I nearly always click on you immediately and eat you up like Pringles and baguettes! Thanks for your insight, encouragement, and realistic portrayal of the little things that affect missionaries living in other cultures. We love your authors too! (David and Kristy)

Kids peeking through the slats in our wall…we see your little eyes and know you’re there.  But there are times when we’d like to be out in our yard and pretend that we’re alone doing our own little thing, humming to ourselves (“dum de dum de dum”) without an audience. So, when we pick up something that interests you, please don’t ask us to give it to you. You’re interrupting our imagined solitude. (Kimberly Forsythe, living and serving just north of the equator, east of the Atlantic and just south of the Sahara…in Senegal.)

Little boys that constantly torment our dog… one day he will be free…and you will be too slow. (Brooke and Brian Johnson, serving in Asia.)

My daughter’s ballet teacher… why did you text me to say that class will start an hour early…and then, show up 20 minutes late… (Brooke and Brian)

Ballet Teacher… when you switch the class time to 8 AM…again…but don’t tell ½ of your students…it’s just as bad as coming late. (Brooke and Brian)

 ROTC that runs past my house at 5:30 AM EVERY Saturday morning chanting… Could you please choose a different road this Saturday? Thank you. (Brooke and Brian)

Dear Pool Employee… I am assuming it was just an oversight when you walked past the young boy peeing into the concrete swan next to the pool on your way to scold my children for playing in the water fountain. (Brooke and Brian)

Friends, missionaries, and readers from around the globe… THANKS for participating in today’s post! It’s so much fun to read bits about your life, your adventures and where God has you. Keep up the good work, wherever you are.

Thankful for a fun, unique and creative body of believers,

s&j

The good side of moving

Moving. What can we say about it? Three words come to mind: we hate it.

But since that’s not exactly the best, most joyous response {or is it?}, here are a few GOOD things about moving:

+ With every move you are forced to reorganize, get rid of things and downsize.

[“Hey honey, do we need to keep this bottle of pills that expired two years ago?”]

+ When you look back you have memories of where you’ve lived, that house you lived in, those things you did, saw, experienced, and those people you met and grew to love.

[“Hey honey, remember when we shared our small courtyard with a family of Africans? Remember that weekend we spent at the beach near our house? Remember those snakes you killed in our front yard? Remember those friends that we invited over for American pizza?”]

+ Like it or not, moving is a real-life marriage strengthener.

[“Hey honey, remember that one time when we were getting ready to move to Guinea, and we were “strongly disagreeing” about something stupid at Wal-Mart, and then we ran into our friend Sue, who gave us an on-the-spot counseling session in the candy aisle? Classic.”]

+ You are forced to learn new ways of handling stress.

[“Hey honey, just take a deep breath. It will all work out! In the meantime, can you go buy me some chocolate?”]

+ You get to redecorate your new place.

[“Hey honey, what do you think about painting our bathroom orange?”]

+ A new adventure awaits you!

 [“Hey honey, here we go again! Isn’t this exciting?!”]

See!? We really have been packing some boxes!

Plans are coming together! Moving in 10 (give or take) days,

s&j